“Your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.”

What are your intentions for me? Do you want a future?  Or is just sex? Will you allow me to chose or will you make the decision for me, without my knowledge or my consent? 

Men love to say women can’t handle the truth; the reality is they can’t openly say I just want physical relationship. As opposed to setting false expectations for a women, being truthful could possibly keep them from getting what they want. Fuck that selfish mentality! Some women are OK with physical relationship, yet other women are actually seeking more. Allow us, who want more, to make the decision for ourselves,  don’t force us into a situation based on lies and deception. Then those same men have the audacity to get upset when those women thought it was more than it was, when you’re the one who set the precedent of what it was.

There are men who use our (womens) bodies as a vessel of pleasure and while he leaves feeling fulfilled, we are left feeling empty. He has emptied the content of his manhood into your being. He now leaves to carry that same act on with another, leading her to believe she is something special, when she too is just another vessel to empty himself into. Men will be men, they have been since the beginning of time.

Allowing this to continue knowing the game shows him that you don’t value yourself so he doesn’t have to either. What is between your legs is gold. Treat it as such. Don’t cheapen yourself for the sake of a body laying next to you at night. Let than man taste your mind, your soul, your cooking, sample your thoughts, digest your words before he can even begin to think he is entitled to your gold. “If you don’t give it to him someone else will”….ok let them. That’s all they have to offer anyway. Only those who bring something to this table can feast and just bringing the dick isn’t enough. I like pizza but that cant satisfy my every need. Men are the same. Find a man thats kind, who can laugh with you, makes you feel safe, who thinks you are annoying as fuck, but enjoys being around you anyway. Find a good man, yes they exist.

So go ahead and ask! What are your intentions for me?

It’s worth the wait, sometimes you will mess up and deal with the wrong ones and they hurt you, but thats ok. Learn the lesson and move on. Only what you allow will continue. Stay bright my loves xoxo